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So That Was A Total Fail…

It is hard to figure out how to motivate someone to improve. What is the best strategy to encourage behaviors you would like to see more of? Do you tell people all the stuff they are doing wrong, and hope they change out of shame/guilt? Do you give them incentives, or bribes? Or do you try and manipulate by telling stories, and comparing them to others?

The other day my friend Gita was visiting a friend of hers, who has a little daughter slightly older than Munch. I asked Gita how her time was with this little cherub. I was then informed that this girl had not only NEVER watched ANYTHING EVER on a SCREEN, but also just had her first “sweet treat” in the six years she has been alive on planet earth. It was a piece of organic dark chocolate, and it was rejected for being “too sweet.”

Yeah, I had those plans when I first became a parent. My child was never going to be exposed to the evils of screen media, only play with wooden spoons, speak Mandarin, and exclusively eat green vegetables bathed under the moonlight of the 7th solstice. But I failed. None of that worked out at all. The Munch LOVES eating treats, and if she had her way she would watch the Little Mermaid for 19 straight hours without moving – except to ask for more ice cream.

I showed The Munch a picture of said perfect little angel from the planet of purity, and explained that Auntie Gita was on vacation with her.

Toni: Doesn’t that little girl look nice?
Munch: Yeah… she does.
Toni: Maybe you will be friends with her one day?
Munch: Yeah! That would be fun!
Toni: Do you want to know what Auntie Gita told me?
Munch: What?
Toni: She told me that little girl has never watched anything ever. No movies, no shows, no nothing?
Munch: Not even Frozen?
Toni: No. And you know what else Gita told me? That she has never eaten any treats!
Munch: Mom. That is the saddest thing I have ever heard. We should send her some of our treats. Like we should send them on the plane today.

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4 Responses to So That Was A Total Fail…

  1. Laszlo Nagy says:

    Toni as you know I have strong views on this. Let her have treats to her heart’s content on the weekends, and no treats during the week. In so doing, she will learn moderation by knowing what exceess can mean in terms of discomfort. Remeber, weak cereal for the weekend? Only my two cents … 😉

  2. olgadavidson says:

    Right on, Laszlo! That is what we did with you and it worked! Adelia’s good heart showed through. She cared about this (over controlled?) child. Her Disney stories fire up her imagination and give her something to discuss. This is the beginning of literary criticism. Frozen is complex. Why did Anna’s heart freeze or should I say, why did Anna let it freeze? That is a serious question and I need to see Frozen again with Adelia and discuss it. And I also need to read the Snow Queen with her to figure out Andersen’s intent.

  3. Julianna says:

    It’s great that Munchie gets to eat treats and watch Frozen…otherwise she’ll turn into one of those kids who go on playdates and want to spend the whole time watching nickelodeon and ODing on soda and junk food rather than actually hanging out with her friends!

  4. Gita says:

    I like Munchee’s philanthropic inclinations. Share the treats with those who have less….or none! 🙂

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